having massive problems downloading DMP

i signed up.
the i logged in, changed my password like your meant to and came back the next day to carry on downloading the program.
my passowrd was not accepted.
had to reset it then i logged in. the home login screen has no links anywhere to get to the download.
so i thought"hey i am logged in, it will remember my login and i can just get to it from the main screen. but it says i am not logged in. (obviously no cookie for me)
so after signing up, i can post forum messages, and edit my profile, but cant see any link anywhere that will let me download divx mobile player.

need help urgently. i thought this would be a piece of cake and i could have all my movies ready so my daughter can watch them on the car's tv while we go away for holiday.

i could do it a different way but this is how i prefer it.