More headache than it should be

Honestly, it's giving me more of a headache to find the upload button to this site. After I found out that maybe I need to join groups, I decide to join a few. However, I found out that in order to join group A, I need to be in B, but then B requires me to be in C, and so forth. Is it just me, or I don't have access to do anything around this site accept to complain through forums lol. I'm quite, loss if someone can show me a way to upload videos, that would be MOST appreciative.